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Over 150,000 people have taken our relationship assessments

How healthy is your relationship? The Relationship Diagnostic Questionnaire (RDQ) provides an instant check-up against 12 relationship success factors. It is designed to help you make the most of your relationship by confirming what’s good in the relationship, and helping you to understand and face up to the things that aren't right in the relationship. Start the check-up or read on...

 

Relationship Success Factors

There are two groups of success factors in a relationship

Support

Do you share decision making and chores, provide  extra support when required, allow each other freedom, really listen to each other, give each other positive feedback? Learn more…

 

Attraction

Do you  enjoy being with each other, find each other attractive, show affection, enjoy a good sex life, display enthusiasm about the relationship, fancy each other?  Learn more…

Good relationships are good for you.  People in supportive, loving relationships are more likely to feel healthier, happier and satisfied with their lives and less likely to have mental or physical health problems. Most people want to have a stable long-term relationship but the statistics show that it is difficult to achieve.  One in three first marriages ends in divorce as do two in three second marriages. Recovery from a marital/relationship breakdown is usually slow.

It often takes two to three years for a couple whose relationship has broken up to put their lives back together again. After splitting up, many people say they wish they hadn't. Four out of ten people regret their divorce five years later and say with hindsight that they think it could have been avoided.

How could divorce have been avoided? We think a successful marriage or partnership requires knowledge and skills about how to create and sustain a stable relationship. We developed the Relationship Diagnostic Questionnaire to help couples develop these skills - skills that will improve and enrich their relationships. Learn more…